Robert BellHow to Answer a Stupid Question When Selling Eyewear Often, such questions are a plea for you to sell clients. Published 9 months agoon August 22, 2018By Robert Bell Invision September 2018 Issue Share Tweet YOU GUYS get some “stupid” questions thrown your way, don’t you? Recently, in one of my favorite forums, Ask The Lab Guy on Facebook, Dr. Joseph DiGiorgio shared a question posed to him by a patient:“I can get a frame for $14.99 at Zenni. I can get a frame and lens for $99 at Warby. Why should I get my frames and lenses from you?”You know exactly why they should buy from you and not online. Yet, your challenge is how exactly do you speak truth to “stupid” questions like these? You shouldn’t. Have the customer do it.Start with the question, itself. Do you recognize what this question is begging of you? What they are actually asking you? This is the key!This question is begging you to sell them. They’re literally asking you why they should buy from you? This is a gift. But, beware the trap. Advertisement The trap most salespeople fall into when a question like this is asked, is the salesperson/ECP jumps in with a response based on their experience, expertise and defense mechanisms. This has absolutely nothing to do with what’s going on inside the custo-mer’s head or their exper-ience. By the way, they can see if you’re getting defensive. No way to hide it. Once that happens, game over!This is a “gotcha question”… they’re convinced that you’re gonna do a song and dance about how great you are, how great your quality is, how bad the other guy’s quality is, etc. But please, understand this very important point: They know what you’re going to say and they’ve turned off their hearing.So, turn it around to have them close the sale.To turn someone’s hearing back on, ask them a simple question. Coupled with this fact: if they know what you’re likely to say, it means, they can say it almost as well as you can, right? So, why not let them? (This is where the fun starts folks!!!)I like to throw it back at them with a gentle question. Depending on the person in front of me, I might respond with one of the following questions:1. “Well, why do you think you should get them from me? Advertisement Stay quiet and let them sell themselves on you! Just smile and nod. When they’re done, say: “Terrific, is there anything else?”2. “Well, why wouldn’t you get your frames and lenses from them?”Basically, the same question asked in a different way. The first question sets them up to talk about how wonderful you are and the second sets the stage for them to talk about the negatives of buying online. Either way, let them talk.Or, I ask some simple questions:You: “I assume you’re considering Z or W because they’re less expensive?”Them: Yes. Advertisement You: “I understand. May I ask, between the two, price and quality, which do you feel is most important?”Eighty percent of the time, they’re going to say: “Quality.”Related Topics:INVISION September '18Robert Bellsalessales tipsselling tips click to Comment(Comment)Up NextHow to Handle Cold Calling Reps, Bonus Downloadable Form!Don't MissDon’t Think Outside the Box, Use ‘Inside-Out Thinking’ To Get Inside the Box Robert Bell Robert Bell is the founder of EyeCoach, a Sales & Marketing Practice. He is one of the most inspirational, innovative and effective speakers/trainers in the eyecare industry. His workshop “Don’t Be Afraid, It’s Only Selling” is highly coveted. Email him at firstname.lastname@example.org Advertisement SPONSORED VIDEOSPONSORED BY HOYAHoya: The Right Lenses for Sun ProtectionEye safety has never been more important--or fashionable. Check out Hoya's Serenity photochromic and Coppertone(R) polarized lens collections, just in time for summer!You may like What’s the Best Sale You Ever Made? ‘Hate, Don’t Hate’ and More Tips for May A Little Staff Research Project and More Manager’s To-Dos for MayPromoted Headlines Safilo’s “American Eyes” Video Celebrates Elasta and Emozioni starringECPs Peter Tacia and Heidi DancerSafilo Hoya: The Right Lenses for Sun ProtectionHoya Nano Vista—The Quintessential Line for KidsAlternative and Plan B EyewearRobert BellWhat’s the Best Sale You Ever Made? Was it the sale with the biggest price tag or where you overcame the most objections? No and no. Published 6 days agoon May 13, 2019By Robert Bell I GET THAT QUESTION all the time.“Was it the sale with the biggest price tag?” No.“Was it the sale in which you made the biggest commission?” Nope.“Was it your very first sale?” It wasn’t.“Was it the sale when you were so broke and needed a sale desperately?” Heck, no.“Was it the sale you overcame the most objections?” Nah.“Was it the easiest sale?” No way, Jose.“Was it the sale in which the customer referred you to another customer?” No, although that’s always appreciated!“Was it the time you sold the most amount of ‘widgets’?” No, no, no.“Was it the sale that put you ahead as ‘salesperson of the year’ that time?” Not even close.“Is it when you make the sale on a cold call?” No, sorry, it’s not.“Is it the sale you’ve made after trying for a very long time to sell them?” Again, no.Advertisement “Was it the sale when you oversold a customer?” Never happened.“Was it the sale when you truly met the customer’s needs?” YES!!!“Ah, finally. Okay, which sale was that?” All of them!Get it, folks? That’s what selling is all about: meeting and satisfying the customers need(s). Helping the customer acquire what they need to overcome their specific challenges and for it to be beneficial to them.So, if that’s what true selling is about, they’re all my best sale! Does that make sense? I sure hope so.I don’t care how much money I make on the sale. I don’t care what the price tag is. I don’t care how many “units” I sell them. I don’t care if I sell them after meeting with them only once or meeting with them several times before they buy. I don’t care if I get accolades from others on closing a sale. If Jimmy cracked corn, guess what? I don’t care.Here’s what I care about in a sales scenario (and, in my opinion, so should you): I care about whether or not I can help someone with the products and/or services I provide.Advertisement I either can or I can’t.If I can and I close the sale, wonderful. Wonderful for them and wonderful for me, because there is tremendous satisfaction in helping someone and getting paid for it.If I can’t, that’s okay. My product or service doesn’t meet their needs. Nothing I can do about that. Doesn’t make them bad or evil, it doesn’t make me bad or evil. The round peg isn’t bad and the square hole isn’t evil. It’s just not a fit. Pretty simple, yes?If I can meet someone’s needs but cannot close the sale because of any number of variables that cannot be overcome at the time (personalities, shipping, price, policies, etc.), I don’t get emotional about it. I will stay in touch with them and ask, from time to time, if anything has changed? Why? Because I saw the potential in being able to help them. Who would walk away from something like that?So, let me ask you: What’s the best sale you ever made? Continue ReadingRobert BellCelebrate Failure, Just like Deacon Blues Because you can’t have success without failure. Published 1 month agoon April 16, 2019By Robert Bell THEY GOT A NAME for the winners in the world.I … I want a name when I loseThey call Alabama the Crimson TideCall me Deacon Blues”— Deacon Blues by Steely DanI love that lyric. It’s clever. It expresses so much, so powerfully and concisely. “I want a name when I lose.” Brilliant.Why do I think it’s brilliant? Because no one, to my knowledge, has ever captured that sentiment before on something as common as losing. It’s as though it’s a celebration of failure.Hey, and why not?In the movie, National Treasure, Nicolas Cage’s character, says “You know, Thomas Edison failed nearly 2,000 times to develop the carbonized cotton-thread filament for the incandescent light bulb … And when asked about it, he said “I didn’t fail; I found 2,000 ways how not to make a light bulb,” but he only needed one way to make it work.”The point is that no one, can be successful at anything without failing first … or 2,000 times. Yes, there are instances of success on the first try but those often can’t be sustained.Failure makes us stronger! Smarter! And, in most cases, more determined.Want to know my first failure selling?I was 21 and starting up a contact lens distributorship with a partner. He was going to run the business end of things and I was responsible for selling. After all, I was the son of an optical sales legend. But, to be honest, I’d never sold anything before. How hard could it be?It took us about two weeks to set up the business. Every day during those two weeks, I’d pass this optometrist’s office thinking they’re going to be my first call and, hopefully, my first sale. Every day, as I passed by that office, I thought: “You’re mine. I’m gonna get you!”Finally, the day arrived. It was time to make sales calls. This should have been the easiest call ever. All I had to do was walk in and say, “Hi, I’m a contact lens distributor. We have the lowest prices on brands you probably already buy. Here’s my price list. If you’d like to order, please give us a call.”Doesn’t get simpler than that.So, I walked into that OD’s office.“Hi, may we help you?” the very nice receptionist said.“Yes. I, uhhh … ummm …” I started to hyperventilate. I couldn’t catch my breath. I was so nervous, my system shut down and … well, I threw up on their waiting room floor. Bent over, I started crying from embarrassment. Thank goodness, the receptionist and doctor — who ran out at the commotion — were the nicest people. They helped calm me down and clean me up.I drove home, went straight to my room, hit the bed in fetal position (probably sucked my thumb, too) and stayed there feeling like a complete loser. The ultimate failure. Call me Deacon Blues!Fast forward to today. Here I am, a sales trainer and sales strategist who’s successfully trained thousands of salespeople and has been writing for INVISION Magazine for the past five years. Success borne of failure!So, don’t get down on yourself when a customer says, “No.” Think, “Well, at least I didn’t throw up like Robert did.” But, also, think about how you might be better next time. What does a successful sale look like and how do you get there? Continue ReadingRobert BellDon’t Just Ask Questions, Actually Listen to the Answers Sounds simple, but many don’t do it when trying to sell eyewear. Published 2 months agoon March 12, 2019By Robert Bell A LONG TIME AGO, I overheard a conversation between two people:Person 1: “Ugh, I just wish there was a magic potion you could drink to lose weight!”Person 2: “There is. It’s called water.” Sponsored ContentNano Vista—The Quintessential Line for Kids Sponsored ContentNew ‘Auxiliary Skin’ Transforms Eyewear into Seamless Sunglasses VideosTeen Sees Color for the First Time — Watch Her Reaction Makes me laugh, every time, because of its sheer simplicity. Anytime I put myself on a weight loss plan, drinking lots of water a day is on the regimen. Simple, right? Well, yes and no. The not so simple part is actually doing it. To drink all that water per day (… hold on, I gotta go refill my water bottle…) isn’t easy. It is, however, very doable.Well, it’s the same thing with selling.There isn’t a magic potion for selling (trust me, I’ve drunk a lot of red wine just to be sure) but there is a magic wand. Know what it is? Listening. I mean really listening! The best salespeople I ever meet, in any industry, are always, hands-down, the best listeners. Simple, right? Well, yes and no. The hard part is doing it. I’ll share with you how to make that easier.One of the nicest compliments I’ve ever received was from one of my first clients, Dr. Robert Ratzlaff of RealEyes in Taos, NM. About a month after his EyeCoach training, he told me I had made him a better doctor. Hmm, strange I thought. I’m not a doctor nor did I attend optometry school.“Doctor, how the hell did I do that?”“By making me a better listener.”“Ah, and how did I make you a better listener?”“By teaching me to ask better questions. It forces me to listen to the answers.”It forces me to listen to the answers.If you’ve read my sales columns before, you know I’m all about the questions. The more questions, the better. The questions I ask have a “share with me” or a “tell me” element to them. Meaning, with each question I ask, I could have “Tell me” or “Share with me” as a preface. It implies we’re on the same team. It says, “Look, I’m not trying to persuade you, I’m trying to find out exactly how I can help you.”“Tell me… when you’re reviewing your children’s homework, do you notice you’re moving the paper further away to read it?”“Share with me… what’s happening with your eyes and vision when you’re at your daughter’s soccer games in the late afternoon? Just how harsh is that sun?”“Tell me… how often is the baby grabbing the glasses off your face?”“Share with me… how often are you rubbing your eyes and exactly what part of the day do you start to feel most fatigued?”Wait for the answers. Don’t interrupt them, ever! When they’re done responding, ask another question until you have all the information you require to help them purchase all the eyewear they need.I tend to nod my head up and down while they’re responding. Why? For me, it actually feels good and reminds me that I’m an active participant in this conversation. For them, it shows them I’m being an active listener and I care about what they’re talking about.Listening. What a concept! 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